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Little Brown Girl, What Are You?: Growing Up Biracial & Dealing with Racism in Society
I understand that I cannot understand. I feel and fear for those that have dealt with systemic racism their entire lives. No matter what...
Pamela Lott
Jun 26, 20205 min read
Cellulite: It Sucks but It's Real
Fun fact. I, like many, have cellulite. Shocker…I know. There is nothing I necessarily did wrong in life, it is just a thing that I have....
Pamela Lott
Mar 5, 20203 min read
Depression: It's Okay To Not Be Okay
I lead a highly social life via what I want everyone to see. On social media, my life looks like perfection to most. I post about...
Pamela Lott w/ Alottaperspective.com
Oct 11, 20184 min read
So FRḖ and So Clean: Changing the Skincare Game
Let’s face it, everybody sweats. Some more than others for sure but at some point (no matter what your sexual orientation is), we all...
Pamela Lott w/ Alottaperspective.com
Aug 25, 20183 min read
Screw Resolutions: New Year, Same Awesome Me
I personally hate New Year’s resolutions. I don’t really believe in them. Resolutions are an overated grand plan for that year that...
Pamela Lott w/ Alottaperspective.com
Jan 2, 20183 min read
Patiently Lonely: The Fact That Sometimes You Aren't Your Type's Type
It’s funny. I am 33.I’m well-traveled. I am well educated. I hold my own on many levels. My blog is hitting a successful drive and the...
Pamela Lott w/ Alottaperspective.com
Dec 23, 20173 min read
The No Escaping of the "Friend Zone"
Which Category Are You In With Your Friend? Friend Zone (ugh) Dateable (yay) A Hopeful (please) For your sake, I hope that you aren’t in...
Pamela Lott
Aug 11, 20174 min read
NYC Corporate Surprise: I Heart Me Day
NYC. Perfect weather. Beautiful views. I Heart Media. Health and wellness. Oh, and ME! Completely typical Thursday right? On 6/15 I was...
Pamela Lott
Aug 3, 20173 min read
Choosing Fear over Fearlessness
They say life is short and to chase your dreams. You just never know when it might be too late. We all might think that we are living...
Pamela Lott
Jun 17, 20171 min read
R&R's Miracle Wonder: Oxygen Therapy
Spring has sprung and summer rays are starting to appear. As we go to wipe the winter slumber from our eyes, we realize that our...
Pamela Lott
Jun 17, 20174 min read
Grateful Travel: A Mother and Daughter Bond
Not all of us are so lucky as to have parents by our side throughout our lives. Some of us have a deadbeat parent, some have tragically...
Pamela Lott
May 30, 20173 min read
Just Not "THAT" Girl
I am just not that girl. Never have been. You might be wondering, who is that girl? I don’t even know that I understand who she fully is...
Pamela Lott w/ Alottaperspective.com
Feb 14, 20172 min read
Giving Thanks, Feeling Grateful…and all that other New Year Reflection B*S ; )
With the first month of the new year almost behind us (scary…only 11 more months until Christmas lol), I took some time off to clear my...
Pamela Lott w/ Alottaperspective.com
Jan 23, 20176 min read
Finding Strength in Those That Like to Hate
Sometimes in life, people are just not going to like you. We all grow up being taught that we should aim to please everyone, treat others...
Pamela Lott with Alottaperspective.com
Nov 14, 20163 min read
The Good, The Bad and the James
Millions of viewers followed him through his quest for love with JoJo on The Bachelorette. Week after week he captured the majority of...
Pamela Lott with Alottaperspective.com
Sep 13, 20169 min read
MMA: An Appreciation of a Sport Imitating Life
Blood, sweat and tears (none applied in a good way!). That’s about all I ever thought about the world of MMA up until this last April. I...
Pamela Lott
Jul 22, 20164 min read
Ms Independent
It is interesting how one comment can change how you walk away from a conversation. One comment can leave an impression on you that...
Pamela Lott
Jul 5, 20163 min read
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